The Passing of a Wonderful and Awesome Man…

 

I knew him simply as Jeff.

 

When I would describe to others who he was and how he was connected to our family, I wanted to just say, “well, he’s Jeffas if that would be enough.

There was no usual title to give him: not an uncle or grandparent or cousin – he was just…Jeff.

 

“Doesn’t everyone have a Jeff?”

It would be easy to call him my “grandfather,” (and I know he’d be fine with that), but how do you encapsulate and communicate everything in a person into any role? Of how magnificent and wonderful they are?

The truth is: you can’t, which is why the name “Jeff” was so perfect – at the same time, it’s simple and, to me, the name connoted so much more of who he was…

 

warm and intelligent,

funny, kind, loving,

compassionate, understanding, patient,

and so graceful that it just knocked you over

 

It was often in our family that we remarked how one person could be so amazing.

Someone who has given and provided so much for those close to him – to those who loved him and whom he loved.

He was the kind of individual that gives you such inspiration for how you want to be in your own life.

He seemed to know at least a little bit about anything, and a lot about many things.

The fact that he was a professional chef was a pretty sweet bonus, too. :-)

That was Jeff.

 

The description I settled on was saying that Jeff is “a family member” – it’s still not the full explanation, and yet it’s definitely the truth.

He’s as much a part of my life and my family as anyone else.

 

After 92 amazing years, Jeff peacefully left us.

I am so grateful that he came into our lives.

There will never be another one like him; he is truly and utterly irreplaceable.

What comforts me is knowing that now, he can truly be with me wherever I go, for the rest of my life.

All of us who knew Jeff are better people for it.

 

I’m also thankful I’ve met other “Jeff’s” – more extraordinary individuals that have helped and inspired me.

I hope and wish that everyone out there connect with “Jeff’s” as we all continue on – it will only make the journey that much richer.

 

If I’m ever able to be a “Jeff” for someone else, I can’t think of a more fitting tribute for such a great man, and a more blessed and rewarding experience for me.

 

Thank you, Jeff.

Thank you for all that you’ve done and for who you were.

I love you so, so much.

 

Remembering Jeff video

 

To Those Who Mourn

For that is the real truth;

Man is a soul and has a body.

The body is not the man; it is only

The clothing of the man.

What you call death is the laying aside

Of a worn-out garment, and it is no more

The end of the man that it is the end of you

When you remove your coat.

Therefore you have not lost your friends;

You have only lost sight of the cloak in which

You were accustomed to see him.

The cloak is gone, but the man who

Wore it is not;

Surely it is the man that you love and not

The garment.

 ~ C.W. Leadbeater

 

To learn more about Jeff (someone who was TRULY Nonstop Awesomeness):

 

(The video above was made very easily with Google Picasa.)

 

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Former life: actor/office worker/virtual assistant; lived in Los Angeles for 11 years. Since then: sold nearly everything, took a $5 flight to Hawaii, lived there for 3 months, wrote an eGuide about all of it, and still traveling. Currently: digital nomad - looking to improve myself, have fun and serve others.

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2 comments on “The Passing of a Wonderful and Awesome Man…
  1. Hey- I was just thinking of you the other day, and was so sorry to see that this was in my blog feed yet through the sadness there is so much joy, great memories and gratitude. What a wonderful way to remember someone you cherish. Wishing you a happy new year as you remember and honor such an awesome man.

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